He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone. John 8:7
I have to admit that when first thinking about this post I had the preconceived notion that God viewed all sin as the same. At some point in my life that very idea was portrayed to me in some way; however when beginning to do some research on the topic I found numerous sources of scriputure saying that this may not be true. Jesus answered, “You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin.” John 19:11 (emphasis added). Thinking about the idea a little more, however, I realized that I was never concerned about whether or not God could discern between sins, but instead on how the Christians we encounter everyday find themselves just in judging the actions of others.
As I see it, the culture around us has divided sin into two broad categories: Majority Sin and Minority Sin. Majority Sin is simply a sin that the majority of the population deals with on a day to day basis. Examples of this would be greed, lust, anger, envy, pride, and gluttony. Minority Sins, as would logically follow, are those that a minority of the population struggle with such as murder, adultry, addiction, theft, and homosexuality. I'm sure some would argue on my list of what is considered sin, but my point is not to discuss what is categorized as sin, but instead how sin is categorized. The fact of the matter remains depending on which category the sin may fall will determine how the public sees that person, and more importantly how Christians see him.
At some point in human history we developed this idea that some sins are "ok." However the Bible tells us something very different: that all sin hurts our relationship with God. “For whoever shall keep the whole law, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all” (James 2:10). So why do we, as Christians, hold those around us in fault by our perception of their deeds. I believe that the underlying factor behind how we perceive sin, and naturally how we react to that sin, is no more complicated than the number of people who struggle with that same sin. You see a man sitting next to you in service look at a low cut blouse a little too long and you think, "That's just how men are." However you see that same man in a romantic embrace with someone other than his wife and you may act quickly to judge, condemn, and then seek help for the situation, in that order. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:28
I honestly believe that in reality it is the majority sins that are more dangerous to us as believers. There are people out there who are capable of murder, but most of us don't have to worry about becoming a killer just from being around someone who has killed before. On the other hand, because we treat them so flippantly, majority sins can easily infest those who come in contact them. I know I've experienced the day with an overly angry person only to come home and excerpt that same behavior on my own family.
As followers of Christ we have to always be aware of how we treat those around us and how we let them influence our behavior. We also need to remember that it is not our place to pass judgement and only to offer a helping hand, with God's guidance, to those who are struggling. Do what Jesus has commanded us and treat all sinners the same by just loving them.